A vital part of dating is the phase where the man and the woman get to know one another. Before courtship ensues, the first date and also the subsequent dates would play a big role in determining the chemistry between the two persons. But what will happen if you had sex on your first date?
Having sex with him would be a mistake if you would allow it to be.
If you're the type of person who can't stay emotionally detached after making love with someone, then don't ever have sex on any of your first dates! Not too many women are able to control their emotions towards a man once they become sexually involved and so it's not wise to invest (sexually) when you're not ready to be serious yet.
You don't know him yet...
...and so there's a remote chance that he might be the type of guy who sleeps with just about everyone that he dates. How sure are you that he hasn't contracted any sexually transmitted disease as he slept with many different women? It's always better to be safe than sorry.
Women who sleep on the first date are often looked down upon.
If you don't want to be labeled as a cheap woman, then don't sleep with any guy on your first date with him. When you give yourself easily, then the man will get an idea that you're very easy to get and that you offer nothing but free sex. He may also think that you've already slept with many other guys in the past.
Let him see a better side of you.
Now that you've proven that you're good in bed, then it's time to let him see the other good things in you. Let him see that you're a confident, smart, and sexy woman as well. If he sees all these likeable qualities in you, then perhaps, he might just give you a chance to get to know him better.
Don't expect too much from this guy.
Guys who have sex with a woman on the first date are mostly the ones who are just looking for a casual relationship. If you're okay with this, then you'll definitely hit it off with this type of guy, but if you're not, then you'll just be frustrated.
Don't make the same mistake twice.
If you've fallen for this guy, then make sure that you don't have sex with him again the next time that you see each other. There's no point in having another bedroom encounter with him as it will only prove that you're in it just for the sex.
Do something together - outside of the bedroom.
Sleeping with him on the first date is disheartening enough. Don't make it worse by doing nothing. Instead, you can choose to invite him on an activity that you know he'll enjoy. Be bold enough to ask him what he likes doing. From this information, you'll know how to invite him.
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