It can be an uncomfortable and kind of awkward feeling if you don't know how to flirt with a woman. You are standing there, you want more than anything to make her laugh and smile, and your mind just keeps on drawing blanks. This happens to a lot of guys, so don't assume that you are alone in this. However, most guys don't really DO anything about it, and it causes them to shy away from situations where they have to flirt with a woman.
Here are some tips on how to flirt with women that will have you feeling more confident and get a much better response when flirting with a woman:
1. First of all, keep it light hearted and don't make it seem like it's a big deal to flirt with a woman.
Most of the "pressure" that guys end up feeling in situations where they are flirting with a woman is self inflicted. See, when you don't have a lot of success to recall in your mind, it can be easy to make things out to be a lot more heavy than what they really are. The problem when you do that is, you won't be able to come off as natural and you will also give her a weird vibe, and that will make the whole thing snowball into one of those awkward and uncomfortable situations for the both of you.
2. Concentrate on building rapport with her.
It's easy to flirt with someone that you have a lot of rapport with. When you get that feeling and she does too, then everything just kind of falls into place. Most men are too tied up in thinking that they need some kind of a gimmick or a trick to have success with women, when in reality, you need to build up rapport and make her feel comfortable being with you.
3. When in doubt, tease a woman to make her laugh at herself a little.
Get good at doing this, and flirting will become pretty easy for you. Most men are never going to tease a woman, because they think that it is wrong. Well, it is when you go for the things that she is actually self conscious about. When you tease a woman about little things, things that are not going to make her get all self conscious, it just becomes a fun interaction between you and her.
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