When you start looking beyond nightlife pickup and focus more on dating during the day you will realise there are a lot more opportunities for meeting women.
Women are switched and ready to be approached in any situation, grocery stores, parks and malls are just a few. The women are not drugged up with alcohol of course but this makes conversation far more interesting and real.
The conversation should come natural because you simply bring up topics relating to your day time environment. Daytime dating in a whole foods or grocery store would involve chatting about food choices and healthy eating. If you meet a women at a whole foods store you can be sure that she is interested in healthy lifestyles and perhaps dieting.
Meeting women in bookstores or university campuses indicates an open and intellectual mind. The problem with night clubs is that womens interests and personalities is a real mixed bag. You don't know what type of women she is or if she is single.
The only advantage you have is that she will be reasonably open to male approach. Women expect to be approached if they go to bars.
You have some natural challenges when your approaching women during the day because they are not used to men bringing up issues regarding the book they were reading. There is wall of "I don't know you" during the day and it all depends on your ability to come across non threatening.
Outdoor malls and shopping streets are a great way to find women that are out to have a good time.
They could be out shopping for clothes and lingerie for themselves and are open to a well timed approach.
You can actually initiate conversation on a busy street despite what you might think. Getting a women to stop and actually listen to what you have to say can be tough if you are just starting out but with practice you can get to know a lot of different people.
Shopping Malls and food courts are always filled with young vibrant women shopping or grabbing a bite to eat in their work break.
Being in close proximity makes initiation of conversation that much easier. Grab some food from the mall food area and take a seat at a table with a women by herself. If she is in a group which is more common you have some extra challenges of appealing to the group first.
Another classic, even cliché day time dating location is the coffee shop. Women love to sit at Starbucks with friends and chat about the week. The useful thing is that they are seated and there is always a free seat next to them. Initiating conversation once you are in these locations is a different matter but first get used to being in these public locations.
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