Has your boyfriend not been going with you as much as he once used to? If he is paying attention elsewhere and going out with others, more than he is with you, then its time to look for the answer at your end and make improvements.
Becoming casual about your dress
Perhaps you have been getting too casual about your choice of clothes and the way you dress. A boyfriend wants to have by his side an attractive and well dressed girl. It gives him that degree of pep and boost that he has with him a girl who every one turns to look at.
The colors you wear
The colors of your clothes may be too drab and simple. Wear the kind of colors that will compliment your looks. You need to look attractive and bright and draw the attention of the on lookers around. Your boyfriend must be feeling out of place with you and hence has stopped going out with you much.
Be more confident in your turnout
A boyfriend wants to be accompanied by a confident woman and not one who lacks confidence and attitude. Is something bothering you or making you nervous and hence robbing you of your confidence? Deal with your problems fast and improve your self confidence before it is too late.
Have you started becoming a bore?
When out with your boyfriend do you bore him with what you have done or achieved? You leave him no opportunity to mention the things that he has achieved lately. You need to change this pattern if you want your boyfriend go out with you more.
Talking intelligently
While your boyfriend would like you not to make the conversation one sided by talking only about yourself he would like you to participate in some intelligent talk as well. You need to fortify your self and keep updated on current issues to interact intelligently.
Show interest in your boyfriend
Your boyfriend needs to feel that you show interest in what he has to say about himself and his work. Be more attentive and compliment him when he mentions his achievements. You will find that he is now inclined to take you out more often.
Show him that you care for him
Let your boyfriend see that you care for him in more ways than just going out with him. He should see that you are genuinely enjoying his company and that you care about his happiness as much as he cares about yours. These little changes will make him want to go out with you more.
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