Ah, love. It is wonderful - but you need to know the truth. Does he want a relationship? Is it a meaningful one? Is it what you want? What does your future hold?
What does he say about your relationship? Has he given you a proposal, a commitment and a wedding date? Does he talk about being a couple and what the future holds for the 2 of you? If he talks about these things, it seems as though the answer is yes to the question of does he want a relationship?
Is He Just Looking for a Hook Up? When we attract men, it could be that they want romance. But it could be that they want to use us. Is he just looking for a fling? Is he putting the moves on you? Has he said he is looking for friends with benefits arrangements? Does he want a relationship that is meaningful?
Is He Just After Your Money? Does he ask you for money? Is he more subtle in that he says things that let you know that he wants money? Does he repay you when you lend it to him? Does he want a relationship that is purely financial?
Does He Support You Emotionally? When you have a problem, what happens? For example, if you disagree with him, does he get angry? Does he suddenly have an edge to his voice? When you make a guy fall in love and make him commit to you, he will not act like this. Does he want a relationship where you get the emotional support you need?
Does He Come to You? If you are both at a party, or you are both in a room, does he come over to you, or do you have to go over to him? Are you talking to him, or is it just you talking to him?
Does He Bring You Gifts? Are they thoughtful gifts, like chocolate, flowers or perfume? Does he want a relationship that is romantic?
Is He Into You? Does he call or text you often, or does he expect you to call or text him? Does he see chick flicks with you, or is he only interested in his own likes and dislikes?
Does he want a relationship?
He probably does. But what kind is it? Is that what you want?
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