How To Influence Women And Date Someone Else Every Week

Have you ever wondered how great it must be to be able to pick up any girl? I mean, walking into a club or a bar, seeing a girl and walk away with her number 10 minutes later. Not only is this possible, but for many guys its a lifestyle. The fact that most single guys have no idea how to really talk to women means that these guys have an open playing field. When they do approach girls they are so taken with these guys that they cannot help but to feel attracted to them.

While there are a lot of theories and general rubbish going around of how to talk to women, it really is not the determining factor. It all comes down to your attitude and your approach. More than anything you have to stand out and be different.

Think about it. Hot girls get approached by guys all the time. 99.9% of these guys come up to them like scared dogs - intimidated by how beautiful they are. Women can sense this immediately. They also have this attitude that what they really want from her is sex and that they will do anything to get it - including everything she might ask of them. Since these girls get so much attention, guys will go to extreme lengths to get their attention.

So how do you get these girls if the good looking, the rich and the charming can't?
Well, you start by being the exact opposite than these guys. Its all about your attitude. here are some important points.

- Always approach these girls with a genuine attitude that you do not want to "get with" them. Approach them like you would approach your cousin or one of your friends. This immediately breaks down that barrier and women can sense your intentions immediately.

- Your goal is not to sleep with her as soon as possible. As long as that's your goal it will probably never happen. Your goal is only to connect with her, to make her laugh and to build a friendship as soon as possible.

- Never ask her out on a date. Think about it. She probably has 10 or 20 guys a week asking her out. Instead, ask her to hand out - almost like you would ask a friend to hang out. The second she sense "date" it changes the dynamic and you are back to being "one of them".

Don't think like a guy when you approach women. They look for very different things than men and most men think like a man when approaching women. Women are emotional and much more in tune with their feelings and with your intentions when talking to them.