Do you know how to play hard to get? Are there rules to the game? How do you attract men without making it too obvious that you're interested? How do you make a guy fall in love with you if you're always keeping him at arms length? These are all good questions. If you want to win the game, then you need to know the winning strategies when you play hard to get.
Getting Started
You can't play a game until you get it started, can you? When a ball game starts, one player takes the ball and runs while the other team chases him. In this case, the "ball" is sexual attraction.
Two Kinds of Sexual Attraction
There are two ways to attract guys and get them chasing you. One is to flaunt your physical assets and turn them on that way. The other is best for guys you think will be keepers. Make friends with them first and then start flirting with the one you want. As soon as he makes a move, run!
Out Maneuver Him
To make the game really exciting, just keep him at arm's length. This will make him feel like he has a chance to catch you. Let him know that you like him and are enjoying the game, but are not ready to give up yet. The more motivated he is, the better for both of you.
Don't Play Too Hard
Some girls never seem to get this right. They play hard to get too hard and make guys think they want to get caught. Then they always push the guy away at the last minute. These are the girls the guys label as teases. In the end, guys get turned off by girls like this and don't even want to have them as friends, much less fall in love with them.
The Psychology of the Game
Understand both male psychology and female psychology and get the edge.
· Female Psychology: In your case, you need to psyche yourself by believing in yourself. Confidence will be a bigger help to you than any other strategy, including flirting.
· Male Psychology: In his case, he, too, has to feel confident that he can win. Let him know how much you admire and respect him. Don't make it seem like you are running because you really want to get away from him. Then he'll just stop playing.
That's how to play hard to get in a nutshell. There is so much more to the art of love than just game playing, though. If you want to learn how to find the right guy and make him fall in love with you, then study more segments from our dating advice tutorial. We've got everything you need to win at love!
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