It is the age old problem - how to get your man to reveal his true feelings.
What can you do if he clams up and does not want to talk? What is the problem? There is a solution and you have come to the right place for it.
Why is This a Problem?
You want a soul mate. You want a lover and friend. You want a real boyfriend and husband; someone to share your life. You want to get your man to reveal his true feelings, or it may seem like your lives are separate.
What is the Problem?
It may be that you are having a hard time to get your man to reveal his true feelings because he is insecure. Maybe he has been teased his whole life (by other men) whenever he has mentioned that he had feelings about anything.
Are You Adding to the Problem?
When he does talk about his feelings, how do you react? Do you make fun? Do you make a joke of it? Or do you thank him? If you want to get your man to reveal his true feelings, you have to make sure that it is not uncomfortable for him to do so.
So, What Can You Do?
Say things like this to him - I understand. Or you could say that you know how he feels. You could just say something like, I see. But you need to treat him the way you would like to be treated when you reveal something to him.
He Loves You
He will appreciate having someone that he can trust with his heart. Showing an understanding attitude can really help to get your man to reveal his true feelings to you.
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