A man who's suddenly telling a woman that he's breaking up with her is one of the ugly scenarios of dating. The woman has every right to mourn and lock herself inside her room during this time. But more than moping and doing nothing, there are more fruitful ways that a girl can do to make her man stay.
Look back and remember the things that he said he hates...
...and strive to change all of them. It takes much for a man to open up and tell you these things. Most of them would just keep mum about these and leave. If he was honest enough to mention what you need to improve on, then you must give heed.
Be there even when he says he'll leave.
Let him be when he asks to be left alone but just let him feel that you're still around if ever he'll need you. Let your man feel that you're not about to go anywhere yet, but don't give him the impression that you're desperate either.
Let him go.
Holding on to your man will only worsen the situation. If he asks to have an alone time or just to go to his friends' place, then let him go. Sometimes men just need some air in order to cope with the stress in a relationship. Once he feels that you're mature enough to let him go, then he'll definitely think ten times before letting you go.
Don't ever take him for granted - again.
If he says he's willing to give your relationship another shot, then you have to make sure that you'll take care of him this time. Give him the things that he truly deserves such as a burning passion, love, and most especially - respect.
Don't fuss about so many things.
Women have the tendency to become moaners and groaners. They tend to make mountains out of the little molehills in their lives. If you want a man to stay with you, then this isn't the way you should handle things. Have an ounce more of patience and that will go a long way.
Don't ask him to change.
A man will never want to be told what to do. So if you want your relationship to improve and if you want him to be by your side for all time, then make sure that you let him be his own person. Don't ever change him into your idea of an ideal man.
Be his own version of a sex goddess.
Men love having sex and so you have to capitalize on this truth in order to keep them. You can be a seductress when in bed with him - don't be afraid to explore. Let his fantasies be fulfilled in you.
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