What to Do If Your Boyfriend Keeps Doing Things That He Knows Bother You? Here is the Solution

Men can be really annoying creatures. And they can be extremely juvenile when it comes to understanding things that annoy you. If your boyfriend is one of those people who are unwilling to understand that there are some things that really bother you but refuse to respect that here is what you need to do.

Identify why he does it
Firstly figure out why your boyfriend is up to annoying you. If he knows that he is really bothering you and still chooses to do so then he is getting something out of it. It could be cheap thrills or just to prove that you get angry; identify why he does it and then address the issue with him.

Try talking to him
Once you have thought things out try talking to him about it. Explain to him that things are not funny and that it really irks you if he behaves in a certain manner and does things that you don't like on purpose. Show him that this is disrespectful behavior and issue an ultimatum that you will not tolerate things the way they are going.

Don't let him laugh it off
He will try to laugh the whole thing off and make a joke about it. But you need to show him with your behavior and attitude that you are dead serious and mean business.

Be calm and collected
The worst mistake that you can make when you are trying to show him some light is by getting irritated or angry. The minute you do this the power goes into his hands and he goes into the dominating space again. So be scary calm and collected and send the message cold and clear.

Ignore him
If this doesn't work then you obviously have to take other measures. To begin with you have to start ignoring him. Ignore him completely and that includes even when he is not annoying you. He needs to understand that there are consequences to your ultimatum.

Stop reacting and retaliating
He will try to get a reaction out of you and to do so he will try to go overboard in annoying you. But now is the time to hold your ground. Don't give him the pleasure that he wants by reacting. Put your reactions on hold and he will land flat on his face.

Talk the language he understands.
Finally beat him at his own game. Identify what bothers him and do just that. Let him see what it's like to be at the receiving end.